Help me please please please please please! :(?

Ok. I've liked a guy for three years. We went out in year seven, it's now year ten. When we went out in year seven it was like a proper relationship. Then he left me for another girl. He's been messing me around since, and in year eight and nine it's just been things like telling my friends he's gonna ask me out, then running away from me. But recently..It's been.....Deeper. We were seeing what our names meant, and mine said something like 'her spirit draws you to her' and he said it's true, sometimes I do just lie and think about you and us for ages. Then...Us getting together never happened. The most recent one was...Well, we met up in his town, and he told my friend and his best friend that he still really liked me. Then he changed his mind a couple of days later, so I just left it. Then he said he still liked me, and his friend I should talk to him, so I rang him up and told him to make his mind up on whether we should go out. He said no. But that he felt really bad and wanted to hug me and he was crying. He said he felt strong feelings for me, but that he didn't know what they were. I said to him I always thought we had something special, like a connection, did he? And he said yeah. He also said that he didn't like to think about our situation because it was easier not to. So I haven't really spoken to him much since, but it turns out that the girl he left me for ages ago has still got a thing going with him? They're not seeing each other, but I think he's messing her around too. Sooo, I want to move on. I really do. Because I don't want to cry over him any more :( Please, please, tell me how to move on and stuff, don't just say he's not worth it, because I know that but that doesn't stop me from smiling when I see him and wishing I was in his arms. Please help. I'm on the brink of desperation. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.